diary of a breakup

when we meet about the money

onemoretimewithfeeling:

diaryofabreakup:

hopefully soon

i’m going to try and talk about what happened. i’m trying not to feel like i need to know, but i think i need it.

You’re going to do what you want, but I would like to say…this is just not a good idea. I know you want closure or whatever, but I’ve been on both sides. From her perspective you’ll just appear clingy and desperate; and from your side, nothing she says will truly make you feel any better. Leave it alone for awhile, keep it impersonal. Oddly enough, this might make her more likely to want to open up to you when she’s ready.

i guess you’re probably right. ugh.